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<rss version="2.0" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"><channel><title>Blog RSS</title><link>bobohare.com/my-blog/</link><pubDate>Wed, 20 Dec 2017 18:48:31 +0000</pubDate><item><title><![CDATA[Drawing Out Communications: Another Idea]]></title><link>bobohare.com/my-blog/drawing-out-communications-another-idea/</link><description><![CDATA[Drawing Out Ideas, Thoughts & Feelings of Others by REFLECTING THEIR QUESTION or STATEMENT

Reflecting means repeating what the person said back to them in your own words, preceded by something like “What I hear you saying (asking) is….” The person can then think, and perhaps respond to you, with “Yes, you got it,” “No, you missed it,” or “Not quite.” Usually the reflection makes the person feel connected with you, so they proceed to spill out more information.

Now you don’t have to reflect]]></description><pubDate>Wed, 20 Dec 2017 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Drawing Out Ideas, Thoughts and Feelings of Others]]></title><link>bobohare.com/my-blog/why-your-titles-should-be-no-longer-than-this/</link><description><![CDATA[Out of six ways to Draw Out Ideas, Thoughts & Feelings of Others, I have shared two. The ideas were 1) by REMAINING SILENT; and 2) by DELAYING YOUR RESPONSE. Here is the third idea. USE NON-VERBAL SIGNALS.
When you smile or nod your head, you signal to the speaker that you are connecting with them. It signals you would like them to continue to share more with you. Most folks accept the signal and continue. In a real dialogue, and not a casual conversation, you are attempting to find out where]]></description><pubDate>Wed, 06 Dec 2017 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[How to Draw Others Out: The first Two Ways]]></title><link>bobohare.com/my-blog/how-to-draw-others-out-the-first-two-ways/</link><description><![CDATA[Drawing Out Ideas, Thoughts & Feelings of Others

Over the next few days I will share six communication techniques that will enable you to draw out the ideas, thoughts and feelings of those with whom you are communicating.  Remain silent, Delay your response, Smile or Nod, Reflect statements or questions, Answer a question with a question, Fog the comment. These six drawing-out ideas avoid wasted dialogue and quickly move you to understanding, consensus or collaboration. Stay tuned!

Drawing Out]]></description><pubDate>Wed, 06 Dec 2017 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[AFFIRMATIONS]]></title><link>bobohare.com/my-blog/affirmations/</link><description><![CDATA[Affirmations help you to implant the right messages for yourself into your sub-conscious mind. It is true that your conscious mind, while collecting current life data or trying to make decisions, uses the information in the sub-conscious as well. So, say good things about yourself, others and the world in which you live. That process will be good for everyone-you especially.

AFFIRMATIONS

I continually, and consciously, attempt  to build my self-esteem and theirs.
I build personal]]></description><pubDate>Sat, 18 Nov 2017 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate></item></channel></rss>
